For a better every day Psychology and Existential Evolution

Many people use to say that friends always are so difficult to find and very few. A scarcity mentality. In fact by believing so, they prison themselves in to a couple of friends that may even not be the appropriate ones when the subjectivity changes during life time. Happily the social media like facebook, twitter, friends and dates sites etc introduce a different attitude, an abundance attitude, which is closer to that  of the Law of large numbers. Such an attitude is more optimistic and effective. Social statistics show that persons with more friends and social relations live significantly longer. A minimum of 5 close friends is a good standard.  Family also is usually a small number. I do not mean to spend valuable time in vain superficial socializing, but to be smart so as to take advantage of the opportunities of larger population groups, that the society of information gives. Quality relations is the target. When we are prepared to try under a law of large numbers, we have more

HERE IS A CONTRIBUTION TO THE CLARITY ABOUT A SYSTEM OF SPIRITUAL BELIEFS CLOSER TO TRUTH AND APPROPRIATE FOR A MORE ADVANCED CIVILIZATION. Peace of mind , planetary prosperity   and  happiness  comes also when we feel that we  accomplish gradually our true goals . And there minor and major goals in life. We might say that our existence has no other goal than to exist. Or that we may have many different goals, according to the scale of relevance in our existence. But one of the most beautiful and meaning goals in life is  to develop more of our soul consciousness . So all other minor goals like social success, money, fame, knowledge , creativity etc are to serve this major goal of  developing more of our soul consciousness CONSCIOUSNESS BODY AND THE WORLD  IMPERSONAL THOUGHTS AND EMOTIONS AND OUR THOUGHTS AND EMOTIONS. You are consciousness. Your body is in your consciousness, not the other way around--you are not consciousness inside of a body. consciousness has formed

Less developed societies have vast difference in their individual, not only financially but also as level of evolution of the consciousness, the society is like a jungle in chaos. The more advanced the society, the less the financial, educational, power and evolution differences of the atoms, and thus the easier the function of the society. The Lorenz curve and the Gini index are how inequalities are measured in modern economics and sociology. See e.g.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNoxEmfyNU0 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lorenz_curve   and  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gini_coefficient also how inequality harms society http://www.ted.com/talks/richard_wilkinson.html Although society suffers from the economic and other civilization inequalities, it does have greater benefit when its individuals are with diverse abilities and talents, but not with economic or other educational and opportunity inequalities. So we must discriminate between economic and opportunity inequalities

When changing a habit (usually substituting is with a better habit, see post ) we need to check our progress. In other words as engineers say, "to sample" the flowing reality, with a particular frequency. E.g. every day, or every few hours etc. This is the frequency of the sampler. The collected sample in the conscious  helps us to assess our doing and progress. The higher the frequency of the sampler the better the control. But it cannot be very high frequency is as this consumes effort and distracts us from the rest pf our normal life. So a compensations is required. For example one of the gurus of personal development reported that in order to quite smoking he simply used a sampling with frequency equal to the number of cigarettes: Each time he wanted to light a cigarette  he wrote on the cigarette packet with a pencil the time. This simple "accounting" action, made him have conscious awareness and resulted in to gradual reduction of the number of cigarettes, an

According to Andrew Carnegie's wisdom as told to Napoleon Hill (see the book with the same title) the personal power with which someone  becomes  able to acquire the most significant things that he may demand from life, without violating the rights of others has 10 points: 1) The habit of definiteness of purpose (art of  individual activities administration) 2) Promptness of decision  3) Soundness of character (intentional honesty and integrity) 4) Self-disciple over ones emotions. 5) Obsessional desire to render useful service 6) Thorough knowledge of one's occupation 7) Tolerance on most subjects 8) Loyalty to ones associates’ and faith in a Supreme Being 9) Enduring thirst for Knowledge 10) Alertness of imagination. Peace of mind , planetary prosperity   and  happiness  comes also when we feel that we  accomplish gradually our true goals . And there minor and major goals in life. We might say that our existence has no other goal than to exist. Or

For in that way you would feed their weaknesses and eventually both degrade , letting their weaknesses to absorb both of you. In addition if you building mutual emotions on the weaknesses of other people the global intentions that you serve are negative rather than positive. 

There come times that are as if we have forgotten who we really are, as far as beliefs about the world and ourselves, feelings, thought principles and deeper intentions are concerned. In such times we need to search for our real self again, and reassure who we really are. Often people resort to talking with friends or go to a psychotherapist or even just concentrate and meditate.  At such times we are vulnerable because we are open to believe what we will be told we are. And in society there are plenty many people, that are always  ready and keen to bombard us with all kind of negative and undermining  claims about who we are. Usually it is because they have a similar opinion about themselves (have short-sell them selves) and are eager to repeat the same for others, or even worse they want the others to be believe and be worse than themselves so that they are secretly glad they are superior. Avoid such people. Maybe you want to find some good friends that they have good opinion and

Peace of mind , planetary prosperity   and  happiness  comes also when we feel that we  accomplish gradually our true goals . And there minor and major goals in life. We might say that our existence has no other goal than to exist. Or that we may have many different goals, according to the scale of relevance in our existence. But one of the most beautiful and meaning goals in life is  to develop more of our soul consciousness . So all other minor goals like social success, money, fame, knowledge , creativity etc are to serve this major goal of  developing more of our soul consciousness

One of the most common draw backs in our modern civilization is our tolerance in being manipulated about what we think, want, and do, and our willingness to entertain negative will to us personally and to our fellow human beings more generally. Often what we want we do not really need and what we need we do not want. Peace of mind , planetary prosperity   and  happiness  comes also when we feel that we  accomplish gradually our true goals . And there minor and major goals in life. We might say that our existence has no other goal than to exist. Or that we may have many different goals, according to the scale of relevance in our existence. But one of the most beautiful and meaning goals in life is  to develop more of our soul consciousness . So all other minor goals like social success, money, fame, knowledge , creativity etc are to serve this major goal of  developing more of our soul consciousness

These laws have, I believe, originally an interpretation in the experience of living and creating in many physical and non-physical (consciousness) and transcendental realities.  See the 12 universal laws from Milanovich and McCunes book "The Light Shall Set You Free"(1998). Here, I elaborate a personal development interpretation. Notice the similarity with the 12 laws of the new millenniums physics in the post 12. Here new dimensions are added  of consciousness and its subjective experience not only of physical realities. I read recently a remarkable book by Meher Baba , relevant to the levels of the world gross and subtle, and the impressions to the consciousness , the impressions of the mind to the consciousness, and the impressions to the consciousness from the supreme spiritual reality. The title of the book is "God Speaks", (see also  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/God_Speaks ) and can be downloaded here http://ambppct.org/meherbaba/BooksByMeherBa